Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Smile;ILoveYou.

happy valentine's day everyone. hope you all get to spend it with the one you love; and if not then atleast with friends. (:

thank you donelda for putting an end to the drama there. and i'm sorry things have gotten this way for you as well. months ago we were fighting like this as well, then we apologized and people were so happy again especially those who are friends with us both, but now other people have dragged us into some dramatic brawl again. and i will say it for the last time for everyone who still doesn't get it..i know donelda and andy both love each other very much. so andy has money and buys her nice things; so be it. they're both happy. so now notice that "money doesn't buy love" wasn't directed toward them.

everyone also if your going to leave comments, please leave your name with it. because people think that i write them and then get a very wrong impression of what i believe and am trying to get across. what i write, whether it be negavtive or positive, i leave my name with it. and also this is my blog..i write the posts so why would i leave anonymous comments..? i know i do leave comments answering others but my name is always there along with what i write.
other than that, keep commenting and just letting your feelings out, or whatever it may be.
but.. if you've got so much negative input towards me..why not start your own blog, instead of making mine hell.

oh and by the way, i am so sick of all this shit and having shit going around about me. just so everyone knows i honestly have stopped talking behind people's backs. whatever don't believe me, but i have. it's pointless. so i have just stopped. so all of these rumors people keep starting about me, i don't know where you're getting your info from or anything because i barely go out anymore so i don't do anything that's worth starting a rumor about. with that being said i also very well don't start rumors about other people either. once again i don't go out, therefore i don't know much about what people do..so how would i start these rumors with absolutely no info. i know, i know rumors sometimes are just started and very false but that's really pointless to start an absolutely false rumor, or any rumor at all for that matter. so things you think i start i don't. sure, i hear them from others, but don't tell people them, because who can you really believe unless you were there. now because i am so sick of all this, with it being my last year an all; i'm all about speaking my mind. if you confront me about something or ask me if i said this or that, i'll be honest with you when i answer. if i did, i'd say so, but if i didn't believe me when i say i didn't.

Life isn’t about keeping score. It’s not about how many friends you have. Or how accepted you are. Not about if you have plans this weekend or if you’re alone. It isn’t about who you’re dating, who you used to date, how many people you’ve dated, or if you haven’t been with anyone at all. It isn’t about who you’ve kissed, it’s not about sex. It isn’t about who your family is or how much money they have. Or what kind or car you drive. Or where you are sent to school. It’s not about how beautiful or ugly you are. Or what clothes you wear, what shoes you have on, or what kind of music you listen to. It’s not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, or brown. Or if you skin is too light or too dark. Not about what grades you get, how smart you are, how smart everybody else thinks you are, or how smart standardized tests say you are. It’s not about what clubs you’re in or how good you are at “your” sport. It’s not about representing our whole being on a piece of paper and seeing who will “accept the written you”. LIFE JUST ISN’T. But, life is about who you love and who you hurt. It’s about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully. It’s about keeping or betraying trust. It’s about friendship, used as a sanctity or a weapon. It’s about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful maybe heartening. About starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip. It’s about what judgments you pass and why. And who your judgments are spread to. It’s about who you’ve ignored with full control and intention. It’s about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge. It’s about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow, and spreading it. But most of all, it’s about using your life to touch or poison other people’s hearts in such a way that could have never occurred alone. Only you chose the way those hearts are affected, and those choices are what life’s about.

much love;
tiff.xo

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey tiff, i agree with you 100%. i get exactly what you mean. just know that i love you and even though we have our ups and downs i'll always be here for you. you are one of the very very few people that i can go to with any problem i might have about anything. thanks for being there! i know you'll be here when i need you! kisses <3

britscrazylife said...

Hey Tiff hunni, Love the blog message, its awesome,and I agree 100% as well! I will always be there for ya hun when you need someone to talk to,or a place to hide out lol just give me a call,and I will be there as fast as possible! Hope we stay in touch hun! and cant wait till saturday lol its gonna be fun!! haha love ya babes!
xoxo
Brit<3

Donelda said...

Hey Tiff just wanted to say that i figured that it would make us both feel better if we just ended that stupid commenting thing on the other blog sorry about it!!

Anonymous said...

hey tiff i also agree with you the only reason i wrote something was cuz im just lil over proctective of my sister sometimes but i guess im her big sis you prolly would do the same for tasha and amber however writing some of that was not right so im sorry for anything i said all i want is for us to get along again this not talking thing is driving me insane lots of love lorra sorry it says anonymous but i forgot my password