InconvenientTruth.

life is fucked i tell ya. people and their drama and then others and their lies. like what the hell. well i personally would so rather be hurt and know the truth than be happy while living a lie. cause i may be hurt but then i'd have a chance to get over it. lies will all come out eventually, so the longer you keep them the worse they will become. so just don't lie to people, especially if they are people who are close to you, love you and care about you.....and especially if you happen to care about them and love them in return. lies just hurt people. and don't ever lie to someone to make them "happy", cause it won't make them happy in the end. it will just make them hurt so much more then it would have if you would have just told them. becuase then when they are soo happy and think everything is great and just perfect, it's really not. then when they find out and really think about it, they'll notice that since this was going on while they were thinking everything was just fab, they'll know that they were living a lie the entire time, because nothing was perfect. compared to if you would have just came out with it and told them from the beginning, they could have had time to think about it and move past it or discuss it with you, rather then feel hurt, betrayed, and unloved. so don't lie. if you love someone tell them, because hearts are often broken by words unspoken.

then you want people or a certain person to trust you, don't you? so what makes you think they will be able to trust you with everything they have and not wonder if every part of their body that they love you with will end up being shriveled up and torn apart lying on the floor.

if someone loves you they won't judge you or lie to you. they will be honest with you at all costs; that's loyalty. if you did something stupid and to you what seems to be the worst, tell them..they will listen to you and they're always there to help. they won't judge you, think any less of you or have their feelings change for you, if you talk to them about it. the longer you wait the bigger the hurt will get. they are here to listen to you, help you and overall understand. the sooner you tell them, the easier it will be. the longer you wait or not telling them at all, even though they will find out evenutally, will only lead to bigger issues and make things so much more complicated. people who love eachother are honest with one another at any cost; that's loyalty.

ThanksForTheMemories;;FallOutBoy
And I want these words to make things right,
But it's the wrongs that make the words come to life.

honesty.
1. the quality or condition of being honest; integrity.
2. the quality or fact of being honest; uprightness and fairness.
3. truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness.
4. freedom from deceit or fraud.

keep your friends close, your enemies closer, and the ones you love closest.

much love,
tiff<3

alert; this past week was definately male pms week.